Tuesday, December 13, 2011

What would you do if u were in my place? Only Serious answers pls?

I have been married since 5 yrs and have a kid the problem is that i have been having a difficult relation with my husband since is very abusive, a heavy drinker and an egoistic person. He has been very abusvie with me and gives me a tough time and now its been 6 months since we have been apart and my kid is with me she is just 11/2 yrs old. I had a bf before marriage and we were pretty close but in this 5 yrs we have never ever contacted each other but of late we have been in contact with each other for the last couple of months and we came to know that we had broke up just bue to sheer misunderstand and really feel sorry about the same he knows my current situation and is really not sure wat to do. But he confessed saying he still loves me and has the same feelingsd for me even today but he needs sum time to decide wat has to been done but not sure whether he can commit and he doesnt want to give me any false hope but he said i need to wait if i can and he said but one thing is sure he loves me. The thing is im confused now about wat to decide becoz after each time my husband hurts me i forgive hime but hes still the same very abusive and hurtful i have even told abt my past affair and been honest with him but hes like im a cheat and all those stuffs he keeps saying all the time and doest bother or care for my feelings he's a very arrogant person hes very gud looking so he feels as if hes on top of the world Now its like wat shuld i do ? Sumtimes i think i shuld stop talkin to my ex but hes my only support wen i really feel so low, hes in India and im abroad but he makes sure he calls me or sms me makin me feel gud and also says hes never had an after after i left we really loved each other so much.. but destiny was bad with us. Do u think i shuld wait for him to decide or do u think i shuld go back with my hus whose always abusing me. Please help

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