What would you do for your sons 21st birthday if you don't have much money.?

Please bair in mind this young man has been a absolute brilliant person who even looked after his grandparents until they ped. He has never asked for a thing, he has never got into trouble like some youngsters do, he has worked hard since leaving school but has lost his job a few months ago and it seems there is nothing around. He really is one of the good ones. He deserves a celebration of his 21st although he says It doesn't matter mum.